Family Vignette--Thomas Ellis Vingoe I

 

Thomas Ellis Vingoe I

 

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Thomas Ellis Vingoe was baptised 7 July 1816 Paul, Cornwall, the son of Henry Vingoe and Grace Mann who were married at Paul in 1797. On the 13th of October 1839 he married Margaret Pollard Gilbert the daughter of Thomas Gilbert & Elizabeth Pollard who were married in 1817 at Paul. On or about the 16th August 1840, Margaret gave birth to a daughter Grace and the 1841 census shows the family living next door to Margaret's mother Elizabeth, now a widow, in Back Street off Regent Court, Newlyn, Cornwall.

Around Sep1842 their second child, a boy was born and named Thomas Ellis after his father. The couple had two more children, William Henry born 29th March 1846 and Elizabeth Gilbert born in 1848.  In September 1851 tragedy struck the family. Margaret died shortly after the child's birth as did the newborn baby girl. The child was hastily christened Margaret Gilbert Vingoe after her mother and she died 12 September. I believe her mother Margaret died a few days later. Thomas Ellis was left a widower with four young children who ranged in age from two to ten.

Somehow the family coped for the next few years, probably with the help of Margaret's mother Elizabeth, but around 1855 Thomas Ellis Vingoe married a widow Mary Anne Willis/Payne who already had two children from her first marriage. Thomas Ellis adopted these two children, Samuel born 1850 and Mary born 1852 and settled down to a new life with Mary Ann and a family of six children. Mary Ann's father was James R. Wills, a shipwright in Newlyn and it is believed that he built his new son-in-law a boat which was called the "Mary Anne" after Thomas Ellis's second wife. 

On July 31, 1856 there was an addition to the family when a daughter was born who was named Margaret, after Thomas's first wife and the daughter who had died.  Apparently, there was some disagreement between the couple over the naming of their new born daughter. Wife Mary Ann was understandably upset and registered her daughter's name  as Louisa Jane Goodman VINGOE,  but she was baptised Margaret on 19th October 1856, presumably  according to Thomas Ellis' wish. She was always referred to as Margaret in all the censuses, on her marriage and on the birth of her children.

Five more children followed: Sarah Ann b1859, John b1861, Francis James b1864, Martha Louise b 1867 [ known as Cissie], and Alfred b1869. The family of twelve children ranged in age from Grace age 29 to newborn Alfred. Thomas’ eldest daughter Grace had married in 1859 and his son Thomas Ellis married about 1865. By 1871 son William Henry was living with his grandmother, Elizabeth Gilbert, and daughter Elizabeth had moved in with her married sister Grace Harvey so there was a little more room in the Vingoe household. Nevertheless, Samuel & Mary Payne were still there and also Mary Anne's father, James Wills, making 5 adults and 6 children in a very small cottage on Trewarveneth Street. Thomas Ellis Vingoe was now 54 years-old . 

Fishing was a hard life. J. Kelynack whose grandfather was a partner in a fishing boat with Thomas Ellis's brother Henry Vingoe wrote an excellent piece on Newlyn fishing which you can read by clicking here. 

On the 23 September 1879 tragedy struck the family again. Thomas Ellis Vingoe I was drowned in the North Sea off Whitby Yorkshire after falling over-board from the 'Mary Ann'. Below is the report of the Coroner's inquest from the Whitby Gazette dated 18 October 1879.

Coroners Inquest: Held at Union House, Whitby.

On Wednesday afternoon, John Buchanan Esq. coroner, held an inquest at The Union House, on the body of Thomas Ellis Vingoe, a Cornish fisherman, 63 years of age, belonging to Newlyn, and late master of the fishing boat, 'Mary Ann', who was drowned on the 23rd of September last. John Vingoe, son of the deceased, identified the body which was much decomposed, and said deceased was his father. Witness did not sail in the   same boat, but a younger brother was  with his father, and from the  description of the  accident he said his father, the deceased, had been fishing about three-quarters of a mile off the Volunteer Battery on the morning of the 23^rd inst, and while making for land for an anchorage, deceased  was about bending a chain on the anchor, when a  breeze came, causing the  vessel  to   lurch and deceased fell backwards overboard. He came up at the stern of the boat and they threw an oar to him, which he got hold of. They next threw him the mizzen halyards, but this he did not get hold of, but with the oar he was enabled to float for about three-quarters of an hour. Whilst in the water he told the men what to do with the boat— they were to stay her and not run her ashore. They hauled the sail down and then up again, and got about seven yards windward of the deceased when they heard him say, “Lord have mercy upon me,” and then heard him moan. At this they became bewildered and could render him no more service. Witness, though he was fishing in a boat half a mile further off the land, heard nothing of the accident until he came ashore about one o’clock. He did not think the crew could have done anything more to save the deceased, as they appeared to have become unnerved when they heard him   appealing to the Almighty.— John Douglas, pilot, spoke of finding the body about a quarter of a mile   from the pier end on Tuesday morning. He know not how the accident occurred.

Verdict:  

'Accidentally drowned by falling from the fishing boat "Mary Ann" into the waters of the North Sea.’—    Immediately after the accident a   reward of £2 was offered by the deceased’s friends for the recovery of the body. This was paid to Mr. John Douglas, who has since returned it to the widow of the deceased.

 Thomas Ellis's death was hardly mentioned in the Cornish press. The "Cornishman" newspaper carried a small piece outlining the above. The "West Briton" did not carry any report. This was probably because two Cornish boats had been run down off Whitby in the same week by steamers with the loss of both crews. These boats were the "Malakoff" of St Ives and the "Providence" of Newlyn. Both boats were carrying Newlyn crews of three men each.

 

Genealogy:  Thomas Ellis Vingoe (Fisherman) 1816-1879 was the father of Margaret Gilbert Vingoe 1856-1892 and her daughter was Jessamine Breach 1879-1968 and her daughter was Agnes May Treloar 1906-1984 and her husband was Charles Thomas Bruce "Charlie" Adams DSM 1905-1986 and his father was George “Pikey” William Welch-Adams 1867-1940.